Rage against the dying of the Christmas tree lights!
“Do not go gentle into that good night,” Dylan Thomas wrote in the famous villanelle for his dying father. But I think it also applies to this time of year, when all the glistening, twinkling things that help us celebrate the holidays must finally be put away. Why? I don’t know about you, but the pine cones and hemlock boughs and small white Christmas tree lights that I arrange every year on the top of my book cases make me happy.
The north wind blows. Taxes are due. That second helping of Potatoes Anna has come home to roost around my middle. All the more reason to try to hold onto some of the magic of the holidays. I think we need comfort and joy in lean, cold, workaday January much more than during the boisterous festivities of December. So I’m not letting go. I’m not going gentle. I’m defying the calendar and some nagging sense of propriety and leaving my stuff up this year. I plan to “rage, rage against the dying of the light.”
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about 1 year ago
Couldn’t agree with you more! My pine boughs stay with me until I can bring them outside in May, and the ‘Christmas’ lights remain in my large cut glass bowl for their magnificent illumination on any cloudy day or any chilly night. Until the sun begins to set at a much later hour these sparkles of the Solstice Season remain welcomed in my home to nourish everyone with all their simple magic.
about 1 year ago
Love the lights in the glass bowl!
about 1 year ago
We cling desparately to every bit of Christmas as well. Cobwebs have formed long before we begin the ritual of carefully packing our treasures…with one exception. Actually, two. The gingerbread creation made by granddaughters (this year a train) stays out for at least another month. Then we “ceremoniusly” chuck it over the back fence into an easement for nature’s creatures to enjoy. We also select one decoration to leave out all year…this year a rather large bell hanging on a doorknob. I want to be the first to wish everyone a Merry Christmas 2012!
about 1 year ago
And Merry Christmas ’12 to you, too, Carole!
about 1 year ago
I agree!
about 1 year ago
I surround my front door and topiaries that are on either side with white lights and fall leaf garlands at Halloween. These transition nicely into Thanksgiving. Then the leaves are replaced with pine garlands after Thanksgiving. I leave these out until the pine turns brown. Usually by the end of Jan. Inside I do have topiaries with lights that I have not used in a while. There’s something about twinkly white light that is very soothing and full of hope.
about 1 year ago
Well, we are a Jewish/Presbyterian household, so the tree and most decorations come down about now, but we hold onto the candles in the windows for at least another month, and the “winter lights” in the trees outside stay until March when the Christian in the family says we really can’t leave them on any more!
about 1 year ago
After reading this blog, I filled a cut crystal bowl with white lights and big pine cones. So pretty!
(PS our granddaughter, Claudia, calls Christmas lights, “Shinies”. She’s 2 1/2.
about 1 year ago
I also question the abrupt end of the magic of this holiday. Each year I feel such sadness for the trees, the too sudden actions of loving a tree one day and watching it become a wretched, twisted disguarded sidewalk obstruction the next. I don’t allow my dog to seek relief on any tree either, there is something crass about it. I had to justify keeping my tree up as all my community marched in droves to have the trees recycled for mulch this past weekend. Who decides these dates? I am not ready. Anyway, I really want to find a way to keep a sense of magic alive longer then two or three weeks. I think winter is a time to make indoor living a beautiful, whimsical space not to mention keep a loft the feeling of general wonderment. I took down my santas and baby Lord’s but my snowlakes, and ligths around all of our beds remain, and ok, one steadfast nutcracker watches over us.
about 1 year ago
The Christmas Rabbit of Roosevelt Island wears an oh so tasteful string of white lights and will until I can taste spring. Anne Sexton wrote of lighting the cave in winter, I think?? Love your seasonal jottings.